LONDON, ʻEnelani - Ke neʻe wikiwiki nei ka honua kikohoʻe, e hoʻololi i ke ʻano o kā mākou pilina ʻana me kekahi. He mea maʻalahi ka haʻalele ʻana i ke anuanu me ka lingo pili hou loa, ʻo ia ke kumu i hana ai ʻo UK-based travel dating app a me ka punaewele, Tourbar.com, i alakaʻi i nā huaʻōlelo a me nā ʻōlelo hou i hoʻohana ʻia i ka honua pili.
ʻO TourBar, ka mea i hoʻokumu i ka manaʻo o ka huakaʻi hele i ka makahiki 2014, i kēia manawa he hoʻokahi miliona mau lālā a puni ka honua a no laila ua hoʻonohonoho maikaʻi ʻia e hoʻokele i ka ʻōlelo o ka launa pūnaewele. E hoʻomākaukau iā ʻoe iho no ka 'cuffing season' i kēia hoʻoilo a e kamaʻāina me ka puzzling (a me ka noʻonoʻo) huaʻōlelo i hoʻohana ʻia ma ka pūnaewele i kēia lā.
ʻO TourBar's Dating Dictionary
• 143 – he ʻokoʻa ʻē aʻe no ka hōʻike ʻana i ke aloha, no ka mea, hōʻike nā huahelu i ka helu o nā leka i hoʻohana ʻia ma ka huaʻōlelo 'Aloha wau iā ʻoe'
• Bae – 'ma mua o kekahi mea'ē aʻe, he poʻo inoa i hāʻawi ʻia i ke aloha ʻoiaʻiʻo hoʻokahi a i ʻole kekahi mea koʻikoʻi.
• Benching – hoʻonoho ka serial-dater i kekahi mea ʻē aʻe 'ma ka noho hope' ma o ka leka pinepine ʻana i ka manawa lōʻihi a me ka hana ʻana i nā hoʻolālā ʻaʻole lākou e hahai.
• Ka lawaiʻa ʻana – hana ka mea hoa i ka moʻoʻōlelo hoʻopunipuni ma ka pūnaewele me nā kiʻi ʻaʻole na lākou ponoʻī a ʻo ka mea maʻamau, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke kiʻi ma mua o ke kāne i mea e hoʻopunipuni ai i kekahi.
• *Ka wā hoʻopaʻapaʻa – i ka wā e ʻimi ai ka poʻe kaikaʻi e ʻimi i hoa nāna e hele pū me lākou i nā mahina anu a me ka pōʻeleʻele.
• DTR – ho'ohana 'ia ka 'wehewehe 'ana i ka pilina inā makemake ka mea pili e hō'oia i ke kūlana o ka pilina a me ka pa'a pa'a paha.
• ʻO Ghosting – hoʻopau ka mea pili i ka pilina aloha me ka wehewehe ʻole ʻia (e ʻike ʻia paha ʻo 'Patrick Swayzeing')
• Layby - ʻaʻole hauʻoli ka mea pili i kā lāua pilina i kēia manawa no laila e hoʻomaka me ka haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa me kahi lā e hiki mai ana ma ke ʻano he koho hope, inā e hāʻule kā lākou pilina i kēia manawa.
• Mooning – hoʻololi kekahi mea hoʻohana i kā lākou kelepona paʻalima i ke ʻano 'mai hoʻopilikia' (i kekahi manawa i hōʻailona ʻia ma ke ʻano he hōʻailona hapalua mahina), kahi e hoʻopau ai i nā hoʻolaha āpau mai nā polokalamu leka uila.
• Textlationship – he pilina holoʻokoʻa e pili ana i ka kikokikona a me nā memo pūnaewele, kahi e hui ai nā hoa ʻelua iā IRL ('ma ke ola maoli')
• Hoʻopono – manaʻo ka mea hoʻopaʻa e 'hoʻoponopono maikaʻi' i ka pilina me kekahi mea ʻē aʻe ma ka hana maʻalahi, e like me ka makemake i ke kiʻi ʻaoʻao a i ʻole ka hoʻouna ʻana i kahi wikiō viral maikaʻi, me ka hoʻopaʻa ʻole ʻana i nā lā a i ʻole kamaʻilio kūpono.
No ke kōkua ʻana i nā mea hoʻohana e pale i ka catfished, hoʻohana ʻo TourBar i kahi kaʻina hana hōʻoia o nā lālā ʻekolu, me ka hōʻoia kiʻi. ʻO kēia ka mea e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ai ua hala nā hoa huakaʻi āpau i kahi ʻano o nā loiloi palekana koʻikoʻi ma mua o ka hāʻawi ʻia ʻana i ke kūlana 'lālā hōʻoia'.
Ua hoʻohui ʻo TourBar's Public Relations Manager, ʻo Anastasia Zolotova: “ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi lā ma ka pūnaewele hiki ke lilo i mea hoʻoweliweli a ʻoi aku ka nui o nā huaʻōlelo slang i hoʻohana mau ʻia e alakaʻi i nā mea hoʻohana i ka huikau! Manaʻo ʻo TourBar e hana maʻalahi ke kaʻina o ka launa pūnaewele me kēia alakaʻi, e hiki ai i kā mākou mau lālā ke ʻimi i nā hoa huakaʻi kupaianaha.
He aha e lawe ʻia mai kēia ʻatikala:
- • Tuning – a dater aims to ‘fine tune' the relationship dynamic with another dater by making a subtle move, such as liking a profile picture or sending a cute viral video, without committing to any dates or proper conversation.
- • Catfishing – a dater creates a fake online dating profile with photos that are not their own and usually the photograph is of someone more attractive than the dater in order to fool others.
- • Layby – a dater is unhappy in their current relationship so begins mildly flirting with a potential future date as a back-up option, should their current relationship fail.
