Ka maluhia a me ka mākaʻikaʻi: noʻonoʻo pili a me ka naʻauao pili

World Tourism Network ua pane aku ka lala Dr. Birgit Trauer i ka WTN e kāhea i ka manaʻo no ka Peace Through Tourism a wehewehe:

Ke noʻonoʻo nei au i ka maluhia a me ka mākaʻikaʻi, nīnau mau wau iaʻu iho: Ma hea wau e hoʻomaka ai?

ʻO nā manaʻo ʻelua - ka mākaʻikaʻi a me ka maluhia - he nui nā ʻano. Manaʻo wau he pono nā mea ʻelua i ka noʻonoʻo ʻana ma mua o nā kiʻi i loaʻa i ka hōʻailona a me ka romanticism.

Kauka Birgit Trauer, The Cultural Angle, Australia - World Tourism Network (WTN)

He lālā hoʻokumu: He moʻolelo lōʻihi ko Dr. Birgit Trauer ma ka huakaʻi a me ka mākaʻikaʻi, ma ka ʻoihana a me ke kula. Loaʻa iā ia kahi PhD i ka Management Management mai ke Kulanui o Queensland, Australia a ua noho a hana ʻo ia ma United Arab Emirates, Kelemānia, ʻEnelani, New Zealand, Kanada, a me Australia. Ua paʻi ʻo Birgit Trauer ma ka honua kiʻekiʻe […]

ʻOiai e ʻike mau ʻia ana ka mākaʻikaʻi ma ke ʻano he mana no ka maluhia a me ka hoʻomau, he paʻakikī ke nānā ʻole ʻia he palupalu kēia manaʻo - e like me nā mea noiʻi like ʻole i kūkākūkā ai a hiki ke nānā ʻia, no ka laʻana, i nā kūʻē ma lalo o ka hae o ka over-tourism ma nā wahi a puni ka honua.

ʻAʻohe kānalua ke neʻe nei ke kanaka.

Hiki ke kūkākūkā ʻia ka mākaʻikaʻi ma ke ʻano he hui kū hoʻokahi, akā he microcosm ia o ka lehulehu. ʻAʻohe mea a mākou e pāʻani ai ma ke kahua mākaʻikaʻi, he mea nui e noʻonoʻo i kēia a hoʻomau i ka nānā ʻana i nā ʻike koʻikoʻi a hoʻomaikaʻi like ʻia no nā mea kuleana āpau.

Hiki ke ʻike ʻia ka maluhia, ʻaʻole e pili ana i ka mākaʻikaʻi wale nō akā ma ke ʻano laulā, ma ke ʻano he hōʻailona o nā ʻano kanaka a me nā hui a me nā ʻano e pili ana i ka hoʻomanawanui a me ka mahalo i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Hōʻike ka maluhia i ka ʻae ʻana i ke kuleana a me ke kuleana no kā mākou hopena i kekahi i kekahi a me ko mākou kaiapuni. Me ka ʻole o kēia mau kumu waiwai, hiki koke ke kū mai ka hakakā ma waena o ka poʻe kuleana mākaʻikaʻi.

ʻO ka hoʻokele waiwai kūpono ʻole, ka loaʻa ʻole o nā kumuwaiwai, nā manaʻo like ʻole o ka honua a me nā waiwai, a me ka mana a me ka hoʻomalu i ʻike ʻia ʻo ia ke kumu kumu o ka hakakā ma nā ʻano pilina āpau ma nā pae micro a macro.

Ma muli o ka wehe ʻana a me ka polarization a mākou e ʻike nei ma ka honua holoʻokoʻa, hiki iā mākou ke nīnau iā mākou iho: Ke ola nei mākou i nā waiwai a mākou e hoʻolaha nei, ʻaʻohe mea ʻē aʻe ma mua o ka maluhia?

E like me kā UN Secretary General Kofi Annan i hōʻike ʻia ma 2003, "Pono mākou e ʻike i loko o mākou iho i ka makemake e ola ma nā waiwai a mākou e hoʻolaha nei, i loko o ko mākou ola pilikino, i ko mākou kaiaulu a me ko mākou lāhui, a me ka honua."

No ka poʻe he nui, ʻo ka huaʻōlelo maluhia e huki i ka manaʻo i ka maluhia o waho, i nā mea e hana nei a puni mākou i ka honua, ʻoi aku hoʻi i kēia manawa ke hiki ʻole iā mākou ke pakele i ka nūhou o ka hakakā nui ma nā wahi like ʻole o ka honua. Akā, aia nō ka maluhia o loko, ka maluhia ma ka pae intrapersonal, i ʻike ʻia e hoʻoikaika i ke olakino a me ke ola kanaka.

Ke hele nei mākou i ke ola, hakakā mākou a pau i nā manawa like ʻole me nā nīnau kūloko e pili ana i ko mākou ʻano a ʻo wai mākou e makemake ai, he aha kā mākou e makemake ai i ke ola, a me kā mākou pono a me nā waiwai. E noʻonoʻo paha mākou inā pili kā mākou ʻano me kā mākou mau waiwai pilikino, nā waiwai moʻomeheu o nā hui a mākou e noho nei, a, i loko o ka pōʻaiapili o ka mākaʻikaʻi, nā waiwai i mahalo ʻia ma nā wahi huakaʻi.

Hōʻike ka noiʻi ʻaʻole noho kaʻawale ka maluhia o loko a me waho. ʻO ko mākou maluhia o loko ka mea e hiki ai iā mākou ke hana i nā waiwai o ka lokomaikaʻi, ke aloha aloha, ka hoʻopili ʻana, a me ke kanaka like.

Hāʻawi ka lens relational i nā manawa e hoʻomālamalama i ko mākou mau pono a me nā waiwai, ka manaʻo o ke komo ʻana o kēlā me kēia kanaka a me ka hui pū ʻana, a me ka ʻoihana a me ke alakaʻi ʻana i ke ola ma ke ʻano ākea a me ka huakaʻi.

ʻO ka hoʻomohala ʻana a me ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana i ka noʻonoʻo pili a me ka naʻauao pili e hoʻokiʻekiʻe i ko mākou hiki ke hoʻolohe i ko mākou honua i loko a i waho. Ma muli o ko mākou manaʻo hoihoi, wiwo ʻole, a me ka hoʻokō e hana i nā waiwai e hoʻokumu ana i ka manaʻo o ka maluhia, mahalo mākou i ke koʻikoʻi o ka pilina a me nā biospheres relational olakino ma ka pūnaewele o ke ola.

E like me ka Belgian-American psychotherapist a me ka loea pilina, hopu maikaʻi ʻo Esther Perel, "ʻO ka maikaʻi o kā mākou pilina e hoʻoholo ai i ka maikaʻi o ko mākou ola."

Me nā mākau pilina maikaʻi loa, hiki iā mākou ke ʻaʻa e mālama a hoʻopili maoli. Hiki iā mākou ke koho e hana me ke aloha a ʻaʻole ma ka makaʻu. Hiki iā mākou ke hōʻike i ke ʻano kūpono kūpono e kūlike me nā loina e kākoʻo ana i ka manaʻo o ka maluhia o loko a me waho ma ka mākaʻikaʻi a ma waho.