(eTN) - No ka ʻike ʻana i ke kumu o ka Lā Valentine e huli mākou i ka uaki i ka Roman Empire kahi o Pepeluali 14 kahi lā hoʻomaha nui e hoʻohanohano iā Juno ka Mōʻī wahine o nā akua Roma a me nā akua wahine a me ke akua wahine o ka wahine a me ka male.
ʻO Emperor Claudius II (268 - 270), a ʻo Claudius the Cruel, kahi i makemake e hoʻomaka i nā kaua koko a makemake ʻole ʻia e pono ai nā kāne he nui. ʻAʻole kūleʻa kāna mau hoʻāʻo ʻana i ke kaua no nā kāne makemake e noho me ko lākou mau ʻohana a me nā mea aloha. E kiʻi iā lākou e "kāne aʻe" ua hoʻopau ʻo ia i nā hoʻopaʻa a me nā male āpau.
Ua hoʻomau malū ke kahuna Roma, ʻo Saint Valentine, i ka male ʻana i nā kāne me ka hōʻeha pololei i ka Emepera. I ka manawa i ʻike ai ʻo Claudius, ua hopu ʻia ʻo Valentine, ua huki ʻia ʻo ia i ka hale paʻahao a ua hoʻohewa ʻia. Ua hoʻolālā ʻia ʻo ia e hoʻomake ʻia a make me nā lāʻau a ʻoki ʻia kona poʻo ma Pepeluali 14.
I loko o kona wā paʻa, ua hoʻāʻo ʻo St. Valentine e noho hauʻoli a ʻo ka poʻe ʻōpio āna i male ai i hele mai e kipa iā ia i ka hale paʻahao, e hoʻolei iā ia me nā pua a me nā leka.
ʻO kekahi o kāna mau malihini kipa ke kaikamahine a ke kiaʻi o ka hale paʻahao i ʻae ʻia e kipa iā Valentine i loko o kāna keʻena. Noho a kamaʻilio no nā hola, ua hoʻoikaika kēia wahine ʻōpio iā St. Valentine e hoʻomau i ka hana malū ʻana i ka male.
I ka lā i manaʻo ʻia e ʻoki ʻia ke poʻo, waiho ʻo ia i kāna hoaaloha i kahi leka e hoʻomaikaʻi ana iā ia no kāna pilina a me kona kūpaʻa, a ua pūlima ʻia, "Love from your Valentine." ʻO ka lā 14 o Pepeluali, 269 AD.
I kēia manawa i kēlā me kēia makahiki i kēia lā, hoʻomanaʻo ka poʻe a me ka hoʻololi ʻana i nā manaʻo aloha ma ka lā aloha; Hoʻomanaʻo ʻia ʻo Emperor Claudius i kona hoʻāʻo ʻana e kū i ke ala o ke aloha.
ʻO Trivia Romance Global:
I ka US, he ʻoihana nui ka male. Ma kahi kokoke i 6,200 mau hanana i hana ʻia i kēlā me kēia lā no ka huina o 2.3 miliona i ka makahiki. Mai kēia huina, 123,300 male i hana ʻia ma Nevada i ka makahiki 2002.
ʻO ka makahiki waena no ka male mua no nā wahine he 25.3 mau makahiki a ʻo wau he 26.9 mau makahiki.
ʻO ka mokuʻāina me ka hapa nui o ka male ma ka US ʻo Idaho me ka 60 pākēneka; ʻO New York ka mea haʻahaʻa loa ma 50 pākēneka
I ka Middle Ages, huki nā kāne a me nā wahine ʻōpio i nā inoa mai kahi pola e ʻike ai ʻo wai kā lākou mau valentine. Hoʻokomo lākou i kēia mau inoa ma ko lākou lima no hoʻokahi pule. Ke komo nei i kou puʻuwai ma kou lima i kēia manawa, he mea maʻalahi ia no nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e ʻike pehea ʻoe e noʻonoʻo nei.
Ma Wales ua kālai ʻia nā puna wai lāʻau a hāʻawi ʻia i mau makana ma Pepeluali 14. Hoʻonani ʻia nā puna i nā puʻuwai, nā kī a me nā kī kī ʻo ia hoʻi "wehe i kou puʻuwai."
I kekahi mau ʻāina, inā loaʻa i kahi wahine ʻōpio kahi makana o ka lole mai kahi kāne ʻōpio - a mālama ʻo ia i ka makana, ʻo ia hoʻi e mare ʻo ia iā ia.
Hoʻomau ka kaulana o ka male, ke aloha a me ke aloha - me nā kaua a me nā kūleʻa ʻana. Ke loaʻa ʻole ka mea maoli, huli nā mea ʻimi no ke aloha i nā puke pili aloha, a ua hoʻokumu ʻia ka moʻolelo ʻo Romance i $ 1.37 biliona i nā kūʻai aku i ka makahiki 20006.
Ua kūʻai aku ka moʻolelo fiction ma Romance i kēlā me kēia mākeke ma 2006, me ka ʻokoʻa o ka hoʻomana / hoʻouluulu
Kanaiwakumamākolu pākēneka o nā mea heluhelu Romance a pau he wahine a hoʻokahi wale nō ma 50 mau kāne i heluhelu i kahi moʻolelo Romance ma 2002
ʻOiai ʻo ke aloha i ka honua holoʻokoʻa, kahi noiʻi a Pew Internet a me American Life Project Online Dating Survey (2005), i ʻike ʻia ʻo ka hapanui o ka poʻe ʻōpio ma ʻAmelika "ʻaʻole e wehewehe iā lākou iho me he ʻimi nei i nā hoa aloha."
ʻO ka hapanui o nā mākua ʻAmelika (56 pākēneka a i ʻole 113 miliona mau kānaka) ʻaʻole i ka makeke aloha (ua male ʻia a noho kāne paha lākou); Eia nō naʻe, nui ka nui o ka poʻe ʻimi e aloha.
Hoʻomaopopo loa i ka 43 pākēneka o nā mākua (87 miliona) ʻokoʻa lākou. Ma waena o nā mea a pau, ʻo 16 wale nō pākēneka e ʻōlelo nei ke nānā nei lākou i kēia manawa no kahi hoa aloha. Loaʻa kēia i ka 7 pakeneka o ka heluna makua. ʻAʻole hōʻike kekahi 55 pakeneka o ka male i ka hoihoi i ka ʻimi ʻana i kahi hoa aloha. ʻoiaʻiʻo nō kēia no nā wahine, no ka poʻe i wahine kāne make a i haʻalele ʻia paha, a no nā ʻōpio ʻelemakule.
Mai hōʻemi i nā mele
He aha ka manaʻo o kēia mau mea āpau no nā manawa ʻoihana? ʻO nā wahi, nā hōkele, nā hale ʻaina, a me nā wahi hoihoi e hoʻomaopopo i nā mea nui, nā mākeke a me nā meli mea nui a koʻikoʻi nā mākeke - akā, e nānā wale i ka wahine a ke hoʻopau nei ka ʻohana i kahi mahele mākeke nui.
Hoʻolauleʻa ʻia ka lā aloha ʻo Valentine - akā i kekahi manawa ʻo ka "mea nui" ʻaʻole ia he wahine, a ʻaʻohe wahine hoʻopalau. Akā, e like me kā Saint Valentine i ʻike ai – ua leʻaleʻa maikaʻi ʻia me kahi “hoa maikaʻi.”
