16 Manaʻo kōkua hoʻomaha me nā kamaliʻi

Mai makaʻu e hele me nā keiki. ʻO nā mea a pau āu e makemake ai ʻo ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana, ka hoihoi a me ka nui o ke ahonui. Inā hoʻouna ʻoe i kāu mau keiki i ke aloha no ka huakaʻi a ʻike i nā wahi hou, e hauʻoli lākou.

E koho i kahi kūpono

ʻO ia hoʻi, inā hele ʻoe me nā keiki, paipai mākou iā ʻoe e koho nā hoʻolimalima hoʻomaha ma ke kikowaena wahi, kahi āu e ʻoluʻolu ai i ka meaʻai a me nā lawelawe s a me nā koho leʻaleʻa a me nā ʻoliʻoli. 

E koho i kahi noho kūpono

He mea nui e loaʻa i nā ʻohana āpau ko lākou wahi a hauʻoli a hauʻoli hoʻi i ka huakaʻi. Ma ka Karta.com hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa nā ʻano hale ākea ākea no ka ʻohana holoʻokoʻa. Inā makemake kekahi lālā o ka ʻohana i nā haʻuki, e hoʻāʻo e ʻimi i kahi hana pili, no ka laʻana. Ma kēiaʻano, e hauʻoli nā mea a pau i ka hoʻomaha aʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka lewa.

E hoʻomanaʻo e pili ana i ka leʻaleʻa

ʻO ka hoʻomaha ʻana me ka ʻohana, ʻo ia ka hiki ke leʻaleʻa, pololei, ka ʻohana. Aia kekahi manawa poina a maikaʻi paha ke hoʻomanaʻo. E ʻimi i ka manawa e hui pū ai ʻoukou a pau, e hana i nā hana maʻamau a e ʻike hou aku kekahi i kekahi.

Makemake paha ʻoe e hoʻomaha hoʻomaha me kou ʻohana akā, i ka wā e pili ana i nā keiki, makemake nui ʻia kahi huakaʻi e loaʻa ai nā hoaaloha. No ka laʻana, inā hele ʻoe i kahi hōkele, ʻaʻole mākou e haʻi iā ʻoe e noi i ka papa inoa malihini, akā hiki iā ʻoe ke nīnau inā aia nā hana a nā keiki, a i ʻole e ʻike i nā keiki o nā makahiki like.

ʻO ka palekana mua!

Mai poina e lawe mai i nā palapala e pono ai no ka ʻohana holoʻokoʻa, ʻoiai inā he huakaʻi honua ia. ʻO nā kūpeʻe lima ʻike me ka inoa a me ka helu kelepona pili no nā lā ma kahakai a i ʻole ka mākaʻikaʻi ʻana i ke kūlanakauhale he kōkua nui a me ka maluhia o ka noʻonoʻo. 

Hoʻomanaʻo e hoʻomaha

ʻO ka pahuhopu ʻelua o ka hoʻomaha, ma hope o ka leʻaleʻa i ka ʻohana, ʻo ia ka hoʻomaha. E mālama i ka papa hoʻomaha a me ka hiamoe, inā loaʻa. No ka mea, makehewa ka hoomaha ke hoomaha ole na kamalii…. aka, he mea makehewa ke hoi mai ka poe makua i oi aku ka luhi mamua o ko lakou hiki ana mai.

Hāʻawi i kahi poʻo e pili ana i nā makemake meaʻai

ʻO kekahi mea hopohopo o nā mākua i ka wā e hele ai i ka hoʻomaha, ʻo ia ka ʻai, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā hale hoʻokipa e like me nā hōkele a me nā huakaʻi honua. Inā hele ʻoe i kahi keʻena, ʻaʻole pilikia ka pilikia ma muli o ka hiki iā ʻoe ke kuke a kūʻai iā ʻoe iho; akā naʻe, ma nā wahi i loaʻa ʻole ka meaʻai iā ʻoe, pono e hoʻomaopopo a pale i kekahi mau kūlana. E like me nā mea ʻē aʻe, he mea nui ka hoʻolālā ʻana a me ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e loaʻa ka ʻike ma mua, ʻoi aku hoʻi i nā ʻohana me nā maʻi allergies ʻai a i ʻole ka hoʻomanawanui. 

E hoʻopau i ka papahana

He paʻakikī a lōʻihi ke ola o kēlā me kēia lā me ka ʻole e hoʻomau i kēlā wikiwiki i ka wā hoʻomaha. Nā papa manawa, nā kaʻa kaʻa, nā hana maʻamau, ke kula, ka haʻawina home, ka hana… ʻO nā lā āu e hoʻomaha ai e leʻaleʻa, hoʻomaʻamaʻa a maʻalahi (ua kamaʻilio mākou e pili ana i ka maʻalahi ma kēia pou ;)). Poina i ka papa hana no kekahi mau lā, ʻaʻohe mea e hiki mai no ka mea e hele ana lākou e moe a ʻai ma hope, ʻaʻole e hiamoe, a hiamoe paha i ke kakahiaka.

E noho mālie

ʻO ka maʻalahi ke kī i ka hoʻomaha maikaʻi. ʻO ka ʻike ʻana he haʻihaʻi ia, he pale i kēlā me kēia lā a no laila, pono mākou e hoʻohana pono. ʻAʻole mākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā mea āpau i nā poʻe liʻiliʻi, akā ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi o ka paʻakikī i nā lula.

ʻO ka noʻonoʻo maikaʻi ke kī

ʻO ka hoʻomaka ʻana i nā hoʻomaha me ka noʻonoʻo ʻaʻole lākou e hele maikaʻi, e hele hewa ana nā keiki, a i ʻole e hele ana ka huakaʻi kaʻa i Gehena he ʻano maikaʻi ʻole. E loaʻa iā kākou nā manaʻo maikaʻi a, ma kēia ʻano, e huki mākou i nā mea maikaʻi. 

E noiʻi i ka ʻike ma mua

Inā hele ʻoe i kahi ʻāina ʻē, he mea nui e hoʻomaopopo maikaʻi ʻia ʻoe e pili ana i ka huakaʻi: ka meaʻai, ka hoʻololi ʻana o ka manawa, nā ʻano o ka noho ʻana, ka halihali… Ma kēia ala, e mākaukau ʻoe no nā pilikia a i ʻole ka pīhoihoi e hiki mai ana. 

E hana i kahi papa inoa

ʻAe, he mea nui ka hoʻolālā. Paipai mākou iā ʻoe e hana i kahi papa inoa o nā mea pono e hoʻokomo i loko o kāu ʻeke (ʻoiai e kamaʻilio mākou e pili ana i ka pahu ma kahi ʻē aʻe). Eia kekahi, ʻoiai ʻo ka maʻalahi a me ka improvisation he mau hoa pili maikaʻi ia o nā hoʻomaha kauwela, ʻaʻole ia e ʻeha ke hoʻolālā i kekahi mau hana ma mua, e like me nā ʻaha mele, nā haʻuki, nā huakaʻi, etc.

E hoʻolālā i kāu huakaʻi i ka wā hiamoe o nā keiki 

ʻO ka mea e makaʻu nui ai nā mākua i ka hele ʻana, ʻo ia ka huakaʻi. E like me ke ano o ka halihali. ʻO ka manaʻo e hoʻāʻo e huakaʻi i ko lākou hiamoe ʻana, e hoʻohana i ka manawa hiamoe, e haʻalele i ke kakahiaka nui, a i ʻole ka huakaʻi i ka pō, inā hiki.

E mālama pōkole i kāu mau huakaʻi

Ke hoʻomau nei i nā huakaʻi i ka wā hoʻomaha, e hoʻāʻo kākou e hoʻopōkole iā lākou a ʻaʻole i oi aku ma mua o 5 mau hola o ka huakaʻi a kū i nā manawa he nui e hoʻolōʻihi i nā wāwae. ʻO kahi koho ʻē aʻe e kū ma ke ala a hoʻomaha i ka pō.

E hōʻalo i ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i kāu ukana me ka wikiwiki 

ʻO ka ʻeke i ka wā e hele ai me nā keiki he wahi ʻeha, ʻike mākou. Hiki iā mākou ke haʻi wale iā ʻoe e kāohi i ka nui o nā ukana. E hoʻomanaʻo i ka hihia maikaʻi loa, hiki iā ʻoe ke kūʻai i kahi mea āu i poina ai a i ka maikaʻi loa, aia nā mīkini holoi. ʻO ka hopena, he mau huakaʻi kahakai lākou a mākou e ʻaʻahu ai, i ka hapa nui o ka manawa, i nā lole ʻauʻau a me nā lole ʻoluʻolu.

E kūʻai i ʻeke ʻeke

Inā ʻike mākou e makemake ana lākou e ʻai i kekahi mea… he manaʻo maikaʻi ke lawe ʻana i kekahi mea i loko o ka ʻeke ʻeke, ʻaʻole anei? Me he mea lā he mea maʻamau, akā, lawe mākou i nā mea he nui a wikiwiki mākou e poina iā lākou.

E nīnau i kāu mau keiki

Hiki iā ʻoe ke noʻonoʻo e pili ana i kāu mau keiki i kāu mau hoʻomaha? ʻO kā mākou manaʻo e nīnau iā lākou i hea lākou e makemake ai e hele a i ʻole e hōʻike mua iā lākou a me nā hana a lākou e makemake ai e hana. Eia kekahi, ma muli o ko lākou mau makahiki, hiki iā lākou ke kōkua i ke koho ʻana i ko lākou lole a hoʻopaʻa iā lākou i loko o ka ʻeke a koho paha i nā mea pāʻani a lākou e makemake ai i ka wā hoʻomaha. 

E lawe mai i ka lealea

Nā pena, nā puke puke, nā pēpē, nā puʻupuʻu, nā puke, a pēlā aku. Ma hope o ka makahiki paʻakikī, pono ʻoe e hoʻomaha, leʻaleʻa a hui pū.